If you're like me - the thought of all eyes on you while walking
down the aisle will make you break out into hives and stir the
butterflies in the pit of your stomach - then we've got the article
for you this week: tips on how to make your special day a
little less stressful and a lot more enjoyable.
In this issue you will
find:
- Being the Center of Attention
- Wedding Cakes
- FAQ: Giving money as a gift?
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Being the Center of Attention |
For most
brides, this is the day that they have been dreaming about since
they started playing Barbies! Every detail, including walking
down the aisle and having your first dance with Ken, has been
planned. The thought of all eyes on you, makes you feel extra
special. For some this is wonderful, for others this is
terrifying. Just the thought of actually having to say your
vows in front of all your guests, makes you weak in the knees.
If the thought
of being the center of attention terrifies you, here are a few
suggestions:
- Instead of
the "traditional" shower, have a couple's shower. This way you
both will share in the "limelight".
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Sit at a regular reception table - often called a sweetheart table
- instead of a head table.
- Have your
first dance include your family and friends.
- Be sure to
tell your family and friends that you would like to keep a
relatively low profile, so they won't plan any surprise parties
for you.
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At the ceremony, include special people to do a reading, sing, or
speak. Include children as flowergirls, ring bears, junior
bridesmaids, etc.
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Wedding Cakes |
Next to the bride and groom, the wedding cake is the showpiece
for the wedding. Although most wedding cakes still have white
frosting, the actual flavors and shapes vary greatly. Just about
any flavor cake may be used to make a wedding cake, whether it's
carrot, chocolate or lemon.
The traditional wedding cake consists of three tiers. The tiers
may be set on top of each other or may be separated by columns.
Some bakers can prepare cakes in special shapes, such as a gift
box. If you're looking for a special shape, verify that the
baker has done something like this before.
Cake decorations may consist of fresh flowers or greenery,
ribbons, edible leaves, flowers shaped from icing or molded
sugar decorations. Remember the cost of the cake largely depends
on the labor required, so the more elaborate the decorations,
the costlier the cake. You may also elect to place an ornament
on the top of the cake. Traditionally this is a bride and groom
figurine, but there are many other options as well.
Selecting a baker:
Once again, check with friends for recommendations. When you
visit a baker, be sure to taste test the type of cake you are
interested in. The baker should have pictures of cakes they have
done so that you may select a style you like.
If you'd like to save the top layer for your first anniversary,
be sure to let the baker know this up front. Since a frozen cake
may not be tasty, many couples have the baker prepare a fresh
cake on their first anniversary.
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How long have they been baking wedding cakes?
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May I see photos of some of the cakes you have done?
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Will the cake be fresh or frozen ahead of time?
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Do you have a specialty cake?
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How will the cake be delivered?
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Where will the cake be assembled?
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Will there be a charge for slicing the cake? (You should ask
your caterer this.)
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Click for a list of reputable bakers.
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| Frequently Asked Question |
| Q: |
My fiancé and I
have already been living together for several years and have
everything we need for our household. Would it be tacky to ask
our guests for money instead of gifts? |
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Today, many
couples live together before getting married. Therefore, they
have just about everything they could possibly need for the
house. However, you should NOT put your wish for cash on your
invitation. Instead, you can tell your close friends and
family members that you would prefer cash. They will spread
the news when your guests ask them for suggestions.
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