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Whether you are planning a beach wedding or an end of summer affair, consider a Clambake!  Fun for all and a tradition in New England.  Another great tradition, is to gather up your bridesmaids and attend a wedding show.  You'll find lots of ideas and local wedding professionals.  So gather up the girls and make a day of it!
  
In this issue, you'll find helpful info on:
  - Fall Wedding Show Schedule
  - Versatility of a Clambake Reception
  - Guidelines for Tipping
  - FAQ: Do I have to order a corsage for my stepfather's mother?
  
 Fall Wedding Shows
Check out one - or all - of the wedding shows below to find local wedding professionals, the latest fashions, prizes, and much more!  We'll be at all, be sure to stop by and say hello!
 
Wedding Day Expositions
Oct 2, Hynes Convention Center, Boston
   Pre-register for two for one tickets. More>
 
Original Wedding Expo
9/18, Best Western Royal Plaza, Marlboro, MA
9/25, Sturbridge Host Hotel, Sturbridge, MA
11/18, Wyndham Andover Hotel, Andover, MA
   Pre-register for two for one tickets. More>
 
Bridal Spectacular
Nov 27, Crowne Plaza, Warwick, RI
   Pre-register for $2 off admission. More>
   
 Versatility of a Clambake Reception

Article by Aimee Guthinger, Consultant, Alfresco, LLC
 
Deeply rooted in tradition, the New England Clambake was developed in the late nineteenth century by restaurateurs and hoteliers looking to offer an authentic taste of New England to the surge of vacationing well-to-do urbanites. Adapted from the Native American tradition of cooking in a stone-lined pit, New England clambakes and shore dinners offered the vacationers multiple course menus highlighted by generous quantities of fresh seafood.
 
Long recognized as the proverbial New England culinary palette, a clambake menu offers a multitude of variations, allowing the meal to be designed according to each couples' desire. Although a clambake can be hosted in any setting, my clients tend to focus this event around the coastal destination they have invited their guests to visit. When preparing for a clambake reception on Cape Cod, whether for the rehearsal dinner, the wedding reception or a welcome gathering amid the long weekend, my initial attention focuses on the location and the caterer. If at all possible, I suggest treating your guests to a location that offers at the least a water view, if water access is not possible and making sure to contract an experienced and reliable clambake company.
 
While a clambake is traditionally a fun and informal menu to offer, please keep in mind that while the presentation can always be adapted to create an upscale reception, you are dealing with foods that generate a lot of left over materials and are generally foods that we consider messy to eat. As previously mentioned, many variations exist but the traditional New England Clambake generally consists of steamed mussels, clams, lobster, onions, potatoes and corn on the cob. Hours of preparation are involved in the creation of a carefully constructed pit heated with hot coals. Each item is strategically layered to cook on top of the next and covered with a generous quantity of seaweed, which helps to generate the one of a kind taste. The resulting meal, described as a delicious kiss of saltwater, is most often served family style with pitchers of sweet butter to offer your friends and family a new experience or a time honored tradition.
 
The Edgar Town Yacht Club on Martha's Vineyard established a protocol of clambakes and old fashioned ice cream parties in the early twentieth century. Perhaps, a traditional dessert of ice cream will be a fitting final course to end your clambake, that is of course, if your guests have any room left for dessert!
Find a caterer for your reception or rehearsal dinner. More>
 

 Receiving Line
You'll have many people working hard to make your wedding day special. To show them your appreciation, you'll want to be sure to tip. Here are a few guidelines to keep in mind:
  • Choose someone to handle all the tipping (usually the best man, host of the wedding, or the consultant will take care of this). Prepare the tips ahead of time by sealing each tip in an envelope with the individual's name on it. Then give these envelopes to the person you designated as the "official tipper". This will be one less thing you will have to worry about on your wedding day!
  • If you are unsure of the tipping policy, talk to the manager of the reception site and ask them how you should handle the tipping.
  • Be careful when reading your bill, the gratuity is often included - which means that you will be double tipping!
  • No one should actually expect to receive a tip. A tip is given for a job that is well done. Once their job is complete and you are satisfied, then you can offer them a tip.
Not sure who, when and how much to tip?  Find out!  More>
   
 Frequently Asked Question
Q: My mother and father are divorced and are both remarried. I need to order my corsages and I'm not sure whether or not I need to order a corsage for my stepfather's mother. We are not close and I don't really consider her a grandmother. Should I still order one for her?
A: Yes, you are her son's stepdaughter and I'm sure she is happy for both her son and you. I'm sure she will be greatly touched by this wonderful gesture. Who knows, it may just bring your relationship closer. You have a million and one things to worry about on your wedding day, why worry about this?
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