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Whether you are planning a beach wedding or an end of summer affair,
consider a Clambake! Fun for all and a tradition in New
England. Another great tradition, is to gather up your
bridesmaids and attend a wedding show. You'll find lots of
ideas and local wedding professionals. So gather up the girls
and make a day of it!
In this issue, you'll find helpful info on:
- Fall Wedding Show Schedule
- Versatility of a Clambake Reception
- Guidelines for Tipping
- FAQ: Do I have to order a corsage for my stepfather's mother?
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Check out one - or all - of the wedding shows below to find local
wedding professionals, the latest fashions, prizes, and much more!
We'll be at all, be sure to stop by and say hello!
Wedding Day Expositions
Oct 2,
Hynes Convention Center, Boston
More>
Original Wedding Expo
9/18, Best Western Royal Plaza,
Marlboro, MA
9/25, Sturbridge Host Hotel, Sturbridge, MA
11/18, Wyndham Andover Hotel, Andover, MA
More>
Bridal Spectacular
Nov 27, Crowne Plaza, Warwick, RI
More>
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Article by Aimee Guthinger, Consultant,
Alfresco, LLC
Deeply rooted in tradition, the New England Clambake was
developed in the late nineteenth century by restaurateurs
and hoteliers looking to offer an authentic taste of New
England to the surge of vacationing well-to-do urbanites.
Adapted from the Native American tradition of cooking in a
stone-lined pit, New England clambakes and shore dinners
offered the vacationers multiple course menus highlighted
by generous quantities of fresh seafood.
Long recognized as the proverbial New England culinary
palette, a clambake menu offers a multitude of variations,
allowing the meal to be designed according to each
couples' desire. Although a clambake can be hosted in any
setting, my clients tend to focus this event around the
coastal destination they have invited their guests to
visit. When preparing for a clambake reception on Cape
Cod, whether for the rehearsal dinner, the wedding
reception or a welcome gathering amid the long weekend, my
initial attention focuses on the location and the caterer.
If at all possible, I suggest treating your guests to a
location that offers at the least a water view, if water
access is not possible and making sure to contract an
experienced and reliable clambake company.
While a clambake is traditionally a fun and informal menu
to offer, please keep in mind that while the presentation
can always be adapted to create an upscale reception, you
are dealing with foods that generate a lot of left over
materials and are generally foods that we consider messy
to eat. As previously mentioned, many variations exist but
the traditional New England Clambake generally consists of
steamed mussels, clams, lobster, onions, potatoes and corn
on the cob. Hours of preparation are involved in the
creation of a carefully constructed pit heated with hot
coals. Each item is strategically layered to cook on top
of the next and covered with a generous quantity of
seaweed, which helps to generate the one of a kind taste.
The resulting meal, described as a delicious kiss of
saltwater, is most often served family style with pitchers
of sweet butter to offer your friends and family a new
experience or a time honored tradition.
The Edgar Town Yacht Club on Martha's Vineyard established
a protocol of clambakes and old fashioned ice cream
parties in the early twentieth century. Perhaps, a
traditional dessert of ice cream will be a fitting final
course to end your clambake, that is of course, if your
guests have any room left for dessert!
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You'll have many people working hard to make your wedding
day special. To show them your appreciation, you'll want
to be sure to tip. Here are a few guidelines to keep in
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Choose someone to handle all the tipping (usually the best
man, host of the wedding, or the consultant will take care of
this). Prepare the tips ahead of time by sealing each tip in
an envelope with the individual's name on it. Then give these
envelopes to the person you designated as the "official
tipper". This will be one less thing you will have to worry
about on your wedding day!
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If you are unsure of the tipping policy, talk to the manager
of the reception site and ask them how you should handle the
tipping.
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Be careful when reading your bill, the gratuity is often
included - which means that you will be double tipping!
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No one should actually expect to receive a tip. A tip is given
for a job that is well done. Once their job is complete and
you are satisfied, then you can offer them a tip.
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My
mother and father are divorced and are both remarried. I need
to order my corsages and I'm not sure whether or not I need to
order a corsage for my stepfather's mother. We are not close
and I don't really consider her a grandmother. Should I still
order one for her? |
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Yes, you are her son's stepdaughter and I'm sure she is happy
for both her son and you. I'm sure she will be greatly touched
by this wonderful gesture. Who knows, it may just bring your
relationship closer. You have a million and one things to
worry about on your wedding day, why worry about this? |
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